So you just met a guy and you’re really feeling him and you think he’s feeling you too. But why are you always the one initiating conversations or putting in the work? Maybe because he’s just not that into you.
I’m not trying to knock you fellas, but I just want to give my ladies some knowledge. Over the summer I came across a quote that’s really sticking with me.
“Men go hard for what they truly want.”
First off ladies, if a guy is really interested in you, he will do what he has to do to get your attention and show you that he’s interested. He will text you, call you and ask you to hang out with him. I’m not saying it’s bad for you to do those things as well, but don’t make the mistake and end up being in a 80-20 relationship. (That means you’re putting in 80 percent and he only puts in 20 percent). Because in the end, you will be the fool. Let the guys chase you and show you what they are really about. You are a prize. Make them work for your love.
Another way to tell if a guy is really into you or not is by the way he introduces you to people. If you guys have been going strong for awhile and you’re still being introduced as “My friend …” or just by your name, then guess what? He’s just not that into you. When a guy is interested in a girl he will make it known what she means to him.
Lastly, be yourself. You shouldn’t have to change the way you are to please a guy. If that’s the case then that’s definitely not the guy for you.
Don’t make the mistake and end up wasting your time on someone who isn’t worth your time.